During manual stimulation, one partner stimulates the other partner’s genitals, often the clitoris and vagina. Every person has different preferences and different anatomies, so it is important to talk about what feels good.
Some partners like to masturbate mutually, which means they stimulate each other simultaneously.
Oral sex involves the use of the mouth and tongue to stimulate a partner’s genitals. Many lesbians find stimulation on the clitoris is pleasurable.
Some people also like to include aspects of manual stimulation into oral sex. People who enjoy oral stimulation can position themselves so each partner can perform simultaneous oral sex on each other.
Many people believe penetrative sex is impossible in a lesbian relationship. This is untrue. Some lesbians might have penises if they were assigned as males at birth. Others choose other forms of penetration. People who enjoy penetrative sex may use:
- one or more fingers, with techniques that may provide more intense stimulation, such as fisting
- sex toys, such as dildos or vibrators
- a strap-on, some of which may offer mutual penetration
